Rylee Michelle Parco

(August 9th, 2007– January 30th, 2008)

ASHTABULA — Rylee M. Parco, five month old daughter of Stacey Camplese and Ryan Parco, died unexpectedly Wednesday, Jan. 30, 2008, at her home. Born August 9, 2007, in Willoughby, Ohio, Rylee loved to smile, laugh, play with her stuffed animals, and spend time with those who loved her. Her survivors include her parents, Stacey Camplese and Ryan Parco, both of Ashtabula; her sister, Leah Stecki; her maternal grandparents, Debbie Romero and Mark and Lavonna Camplese Sr.; her paternal grandparents, Donna Parco (Scott Radwancky) and Louis Parco; her maternal great-grandmother, Ella Camplese; her paternal great-grandmother, Pat Dufour of Ashtabula; her aunts and uncles, Stephanie Camplese, Brianna Camplese, Christina Parco, Keith Parco, and Michael, Trevor and Mark Camplese Jr., all of Ashtabula; and a step-uncle, Dave Elliott of Madison. Rylee was preceded in death by her great grandparents, Anthony Camplese, Lloyd Romero and Charles and Doris Dufour. A service will be held 1 p.m. Monday, Feb. 4, 2008, at the Lighthouse Baptist Church, 2929 Carpenter Road, Ashtabula, with the Rev. John Jones, Pastor, officiating. Burial will be in St. Joseph Cemetery, Ashtabula. Calling hour will be held at the ZABACK-DUCRO FUNERAL HOME, 500 W. Prospect Road, Ashtabula, on Sunday, Feb. 3, 2008, from 2 until 4 p.m.
Published in The Star Beacon from 2/1/2008 - 2/2/2008.

From Mommy:
Hi mommy's little angel, I know you can hear me when I talk but I just wanted to write a little something to have on paper along with the rest of our family and friends kind words. Baby I don't think you will ever know how much mommy, daddy and your family will miss you. Mommy is sorry that I cry for you I know you wouldn't want me to be sad but mommy hurts so much so please don't hurt when you see mommy crying. I just don't know how else to deal with what’s been going on. I just feel so robbed and don't understand why my little Ry Ry had to go be with the other angels so soon..... I know you loved me as much as I loved you. I am just so crushed. Someone once told me babies shouldn't have to bury their own babies. I never even got to hear you call me mama.... and that hurts me so bad. Please baby girl just know mommy and daddy will never forget you or stop loving you please be with us no matter what as I wish I could do for you. I feel so empty not having my baby to take care of. My mother instincts feel so weird. It's hard to explain but it’s like one day you have this tiny little baby who depended so much on you and then it's gone faster than it even took to bring you into this world. 9 months making you 30 hours of labor and 5 months together. I feel so robbed. Although I’m so happy to have been with you for 5 months rather than no months at all. You were so special it only took you 5 months to touch hearts and lives. But this is going to take a lifetime to get over until we get to be together again. I just wish it didn't hurt so. But know that I love you bubby.... and in my heart you will always be.
And to every kind person who wrote something here thank you so much for being so caring. And before this go offline I plan to print this out and put it in Rylee's hope chest, so I will always have something to go to when I get lonely or sad.....
Once again thank you so much
Ryan, Stacey and Leah......
And if anyone who is not on myspace would like to contact me my email address is:
thereasonmyheartbeats@yahoo.com
Stacey Camplese (Ashtabula, OH)

Online messages from family & friends via the Star Beacon :
February 2, 2008
Rylee, your life was so short I never got to even see you in person. Yet thru photos I know you were so Special! There's no hiding that Camplese blood! Rest easy now as we'll meet one day in heaven and I'll want a hug from you then.
Your California Camplese family prays and thinks about you all day long. Stacey, Ryan, & Leah you’re in our hearts and prayers.
Love Uncle Charles, Aunt Shannon, Cousins Lori, Ashley, & Anthony Camplese
Charles Camplese (Tustin, CA)

February 2, 2008
Dearest Rylee - We never got to meet you, but watched you grow through pictures on your Mom's MySpace page - you were a beautiful baby and will be greatly missed. Watch over your mommy and daddy and your big sister and forever be comforted in the arms of our heavenly Father! We love you all - Love Aunt Shannon, cousins Lori, Ashley and Anthony
Shannon Camplese (Tustin, CA)

February 2, 2008
Dear Stacey & Family...We'll all so sorry for your loss..She's resting in God's arms now.. Remember her laughs her Smiles she will always be in your hearts.. Love & Prayers
Shirley Balcomb (Ashtabula, OH)

February 2, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Rosie Pagan (Ashtabula,OH)

February 2, 2008
Dear Ellie, Mark, and families:
We cannot begin to express how sorrow we are for your loss. Please know you will be in all of our thoughts and prayers and we will do everything possible to help you get through this difficult time.
Warmest regards,
The Ducro Family and Staff
J.P. Ducro (Ashtabula, OH)

February 3, 2008
Stacey, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family…
Brianna Aldilaimi (Detroit, MI) & (Ashtabula, OH)

February 3, 2008
I am a friend of your Aunt Toni and Uncle Jim, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Please know we will keep you in our prayers.
Margaret Klender (Jefferson, OH)

February 4, 2008
Stacey:
When Charles told us of your loss my heart broke. How sad that you have to experience such a great loss; losing a child is the worst. May God hold you in his arms and help you through this most difficult time. Our prayers and thoughts are with you as you go through this. Hugs
Leslie & Ken Gerhardt (Anaheim, CA)

February 4, 2008
Stacey, My prayers are with you. I can't even begin to imagine the pain you are going through. But I know what it is to lose a family member and I know that God is able to heal in ways you can not even imagine. And he will. God bless
Susan Miquelon (Mission Viejo, DE)

February 4, 2008
Our little angel was taken far too soon from us! I will miss your precious smile and the new little laugh that’s all yours alone!! You will never leave Grandmas heart or thoughts and precious memories. I love you Rylee. I promise to watch over mommy, daddy, Leah
Debbie Romero (Ashtabula, OH)

February 4, 2008
Stacey & Family,
This is a sad day for all of us as we always look forward to seeing all the family at our gatherings, Believe me when I say you are in our hearts and thoughts (Always).
UNCLE JIM
Jim Whalen (Ashtabula, OH)

February 4, 2008
I am so very sorry for your loss, I can’t begin to know what you’re going through but do know we are all keeping you in our thoughts..
Stay strong..
Traci Fraback (Williamsfield, OH)

February 4, 2008
Stacey,
I am so sorry for the loss of your precious angel. Words can't express the hurt that I am sure you are going through but do not worry she is in a better place and in Gods arms now. You are all in my prayers.
Sarah Schindler (Geneva, OH)

February 4, 2008
Stacey,
I am so sorry about your loss. I cannot stop thinking about the pain you are trying to deal with it really saddens my heart to hear of a child passing away. Just remember through the hard times try and think about the good memories you had with Rylee. They say time heals all wounds, I won't lie it never heals but most of the pain does go away. I wish you nothing but the best and if you need anything please make sure you let me know. We Love Ya Girl.
May GOD lead you through this pain and forever keep your angel Rylee safe in heaven.
Susan Rich (Fort Walton Beach, FL)

February 4, 2008
Hi mommy's little angel, I know you can hear me when I talk but I just wanted to write a little something to have on paper along with the rest of our family and friends kind words. Baby I don't think you will ever know how much mommy, daddy and your family will miss you. Mommy is sorry that I cry for you I know you wouldn't want me to be sad but mommy hurts so much so please don't hurt when you see mommy crying. I just don't know how else to deal with what’s been going on. I just feel so robbed and don't understand why my little Ry Ry had to go be with the other angels so soon..... I know you loved me as much as I loved you. I am just so crushed. Someone once told me babies shouldn't have to bury their own babies. I never even got to hear you call me mama.... and that hurts me so bad. Please baby girl just know mommy and daddy will never forget you or stop loving you please be with us no matter what as I wish I could do for you. I feel so empty not having my baby to take care of. My mother instincts feel so weird. It's hard to explain but its like one day you have this tiny little baby who depended so much on you and then it's gone faster than it even took to bring you into this world. 9 months making you 30 hours of labor and 5 months together. I feel so robbed. Although I’m so happy to have been with you for 5 months rather than no months at all. You were so special it only took you 5 months to touch hearts and life's. But this is going to take a lifetime to get over until we get to be together again. I just wish it didn't hurt so. But know that I love you bubby.... and in my heart you will always be.
And to every kind person who wrote something here thank you so much for being so caring. And before this go offline I plan to print this out and put it in Rylee's hope chest, so I will always have something to go to when I get lonely or sad.....
Once again thank you so much
Ryan, Stacey and Leah......
And if anyone who is not on myspace would like to contact me my email address is
thereasonmyheartbeats@yahoo.com
Stacey Camplese (Ashtabula, OH)

February 4, 2008
Stacey and Family,
We are very sorry for your loss and our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Baby Rylee is in Gods hands now. We are here if you need anything.
Allan, Nikki, Brendan, Elijah and Landon Camplese
Nikki Camplese (Davenport, IA)

February 4, 2008
I'm an old friend of your mommy's. I wanted to meet you so bad--now I'll have to wait awhile. You're an angel now so take care of your mommy and daddy and watch over your big sister.
Lizz Simmons (Ashtabula, OH)

February 4, 2008
I read a poem that reminds me of Rylee. "Mommy please don't cry, I'm in the arms of Jesus as he sings me lullabies." Every time I read that I think of you and know that you are in a wonderful place. Stacey, Leah, and Ryan.. I know that words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. I want you all to know that you are in my thoughts and that Rylee is looking over your family and will always live on through you. She was a little ball of sunshine that now shines down on you on the sunny summer days and though her time on earth was short, its not the length of her life but the quality to which she brought smiles, tears, and laughs. She will be remembered always for the good times in your lives. Please don't hesitate to call me if you ever need anything.
Tristess Charboneau (Pierpont, OH)

February 4, 2008
TO MY FAMILY I LOVE,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
JEFF CAMPLESE SR (ASHTABULA, OH)

February 4, 2008
Dear Stacey and Ryan: I'm so sorry for you that this happened. I could not imagine what I would do. She was such a precious little girl, full of smiles, and happiness. She was taken from all of us too soon. May her soul rest in peace.
Ryan Wolfe (Ashtabula, OH)

February 4, 2008
Stacey and family... I hope in this time of sorrow, you find comfort in the lord. My he be there with you all times. You now have a new Angel to watch over you and to protect you. May the memories of your little one stay with you and also help you through this tough time. My deepest sympathy and love…
Karie Ewig (Virginia Beach, VA)

February 4, 2008
Stacey, you are in my prayers, and words will never express the sorrow I feel for you. I am always here for you, and for Leah.
Love Always,
Tiffany Arnold and Kayla Ackley (Jefferson, OH)

February 5, 2008
My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead. She was so lucky to have you as a parent. God needed another angel to look after someone who really needed her. I hope you find peace.
You will be in my prayers.
Susie Matta (Irvine, CA)

February 5, 2008
A heartfelt tear can show our love
As words can never do;
It says, "I want to share your pain—
My heart goes out to you." —D. De Haan

Sharing in your sorrow. I pray that God wraps His loving arms around you and your family during this very difficult time.
Dearest Rylee, Little Angel. We'll see you in heaven.
Love and Peace,
Kristen Willett (Irvine, CA)

February 5, 2008
I am a friend of Charles Camplese, and my thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Please know that I am praying to the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort that He will comfort you and your family with all his love always.
Tom Cavoores (Jacksonville, FL)

February 5, 2008
Stacy,
Charles just told me of your loss. On behalf of our entire company we at CNS would like to express our sincerest condolences to you and your family. My heart goes out to you and your family. Please hang in there. Time will heal although it's very tough right now. My family experienced a similar situation and i can tell you, try to move forward, I know it's tough.
Hang in there and be strong.
Thomas Stravino (Burbank, CA)

February 5, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort and hope that time heals your pain!
Anand Kannam (Temecula, CA)

February 5, 2008
Please know that your family is in our prayers.
Michael Rankin (Riverside, CA)

February 5, 2008
I am a friend of your Uncle Charles in California, My heart is so heavy for you. Please accept my deepest sympathy.
Kellie Hardy (Costa Mesa, CA)

February 5, 2008
Stacey & Family,
Words cannot express my deepest sympathy & I pray for comfort and peace to you and your loved ones. I am a friend of your Uncle Charles, who shared the news about the loss of your sweet baby. I am so sorry. "He shall gather the lambs in His arms and hold them close to His heart." Isaiah 40:11
Andrea (Culver) Johnson (Apex, NC)

February 5, 2008
We were so sorry to hear of your loss! We prayed for you and your family and will continue to do so. May God give you His comfort and peace…
Lisa & Jeff Myers (Irvine, CA)

February 6, 2008
Stacey, Your Uncle Charles told me of this terrible news and words can't express how heartbroken I feel for you and your family. Your Riley is a beautiful and precious little angel. Please know that you and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers and may God hold your hand through this terrible time and bring you through this knowing that your little Rylee is forever safe and in our Father's loving arms. Your Rylee will always be with you. Love and God Bless you.
Corrina Cunningham (Fullerton, CA)

February 6, 2008
I'm terribly sorry to hear of your loss... the world's loss, moreover! I heard about this from Uncle Charles C., a good friend of mine. I can only imagine how difficult this must be. In times like this it has always helped me to celebrate the life of those we have lost. I wish you the very best as you try to make sense of this.
Nathan Shaw (Lawrenceburg, IN)

February 6, 2008
grandma and grandpas little angel you will be forever in our hearts. Your little smile truly lit up our lives. There are no words to express how much we miss you and wish that we could hold you in our arms. We love you little Rylee.
Donna Parco (Ashtabula, OH)

February 7, 2008
As a father, my heart goes out to you.
Allen Lewis (Cypress, CA)

February 7, 2008
I’m so sad for your loss. To lose a child is one of the hardest losses of all. Although hard try to remember the good things. My love is with you.
Amanda Watkin (Derbyshire in UK)

February 8, 2008
Stacy,
I don't know what you could be going through right now but I could only imagine how horrible it must be I just want to let you know you are in everyone's thoughts
Your Friend,
Nicole Hayner (Britton) (Kingsville, OH)

February 11, 2008
Words can’t explain how I hurt for you and your family now Stacey. I pray for your comfort. Precious Rylee is in heaven, and someday we will all be together again. I Love You! May God help you through this. I am sooo sorry. I will continue to pray for you.
Your cousin, Jennifer (Ashtabula, OH)

February 18, 2008
I was just now able to see this book to sign. Sorry its so late. Rick and I are thinking of you, and keeping you in our prayers. If you need anything at all Stacey, know we are here for you. We love you. Lots of love from both Rick and me.
Jill Brunkhorst (Raleigh, NC)

February 25, 2008
We are blessed to have a little time with you. We know you are in the arms of Jesus. We miss you and love you..Rylee You will be in our hearts until the day we see you in Heaven. We love you Stacey and Leah
Grandpa Mark and Grandma Lavonna Camplese (Ashtabula, OH)

February 25, 2008
I miss Rylee, but Stacy she’s in our memories sooooooo we will never ever forget her.
Brianna Camplese (Ashtabula, OH)

February 26, 2008
Rylee, Do me a favor, When I die, will you be the one you shows me around heaven? Give my Grandpa a hug for me. It must be kind of cool to know what God looks like. I’m not going to lie. It totally stunk having to let you go. Watch over me because I do a lot of stupid things. You will make an excellent GUARDIAN ANGEL!
Mark Camplese Jr. (Ashtabula, OH)

Feb 27, 2007
Camplese Family-I do not know how it feels to lose a child. I am so sorry for your loss...your loss that you face everyday, every month, every year on her birthday, when she would graduate, and when she started a family. It's a terrible tragedy and I'm sorry that you were the one chosen.
Crystal Vickery (Espyville, PA)

Feb 28, 2007
I'm very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Steven Neff (Dallas, TX)

Email message from friends and family in California:

Shannon and Charles sent out an email request for prayers to our friends in California and these are their responses:
Would you please pray for our Ohio family today as my niece Stacey’s daughter was found passed away in her crib this morning. Her name was Rylee and she was 5 months old. First thoughts are SIDS, but she is being sent to Cleveland for an autopsy. We’re asking for prayers for Rylee, Stacey, and our entire family during this difficult time.
This precious baby girl is now safe in the loving arms of our Father in heaven! We love you Rylee,
Charles, Shannon, Lori, Ashley, & Anthony Camplese (Tustin, CA)

Hi Charles and Shannon,
I just got the email about your niece. I will certainly be praying for your whole family during this devastating loss.
Love,
Lisa Meyers (CA)

Shannon: I am so sorry for Charles’ loss.
Love, Lois Hayes (Shannon Camplese mom)(CA)

Hi Shannon,
I’m so sorry to hear of your loss. It’s just heartbreaking. Are you okay? It’s just unimaginable. You family and theirs are in our prayers. If there is anything I can do, let me know. If you need me to baby sit let me know.

Love,
Lora Vanessen (CA)

Hi Shannon,
I am praying for Charles family even as I type this. I am so sorry.
I'll be thinking about you all and praying lots.
Love,
Caryn (CA)

Shannon,
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I will keep them in my prayers.
Jessica (CA)

Shannon
I just read the prayer requests from Patsy. I am so sorry for that little girl and her family! Was this their only child? or their first? Doesn’t really matter but wondered. I will keep them in my prayers-these are the tuff questions we have, isn’t it.
Sheila (CA)

I am praying for y'all as I type. What a heart ache for y'all. Please continue to keep me posted on the events.
Love,
Beverly (CA)

Oh Charles.......I am SO very VERY sorry........
Please pass on that yes, I'll pray for them now.
Nancy Wermes (CA)

So sorry to hear about your family’s loss Charles. My wife and I will be definitely be praying for you guys.
Love,
Ron & Marcia Dippold (CA)

Very sad to hear of a baby passing... Please know that your family is in our families thoughts and prayers.
Stacy Yuhasz (CA)

Charlie,
I am very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what your family is going through. I did send your e-mail to all of my family.
Paul Hewitt (CA)

Charles,
I'm sorry for the loss of your niece. I'll be praying for you.
Thomas Miquelon(CA)

I cannot imagine the pain your family is experiencing. Of course my thoughts are with you at this tough time. I pray that the results of the autopsy bring a sense of peace to all. Bless you as your faith carries you through this.
Leslie Gerhardt (CA)

I am so sorry to hear this news. If there is anything you need at all, just let me know.
My Deepest Sympathy to you and your family. What a beautiful and precious little girl. I just signed the guest book. I’ll be praying for you and your family.
Much Love to You Dear Friend, Kristen

A heartfelt tear can show our love
As words can never do;
It says, "I want to share your pain—
My heart goes out to you." —D. De Haan

Sharing in your sorrow. I pray that God wraps His loving arms around you and your family during this very difficult time.
Dearest Rylee, Little Angel. We'll see you in heaven.

Love and Peace, Kristen Willett (CA)